The Ugly truth about Reality

Son, from this day forward, you may see my posts containing some of my experience and how I dealt with them.

Some may be useful, some may not, but bare with them.. at least you know.. I never expect you to understand it but, again.. at least you know..

There were lots of things that I regretted I never tried or really fought for .

Driving, swimming, those are 2 things up until know I have not mastered.

You may realize why your mother and I push you to have a swimming lesson.

Yes, to never feeling regretful not trying or not doing.

I wish I could teach you myself those skill.. Well, I might still have a chance to teach you how to drive a motorcycle. One thing that I enjoyed in my life is driving motorcycle.

The truth is, up until this post is published, your parents own no car 😄

Yes, that's the truth.. maybe an ugly one.

But, that's not the one I want to talk about.

I really want you to know how harsh life can be for your parents.

You may now realize that, I was not always present during your childhood.

Yes, I was away working and could not be with you, your mom, and your sweet sister.

That's what man have to do and you are a man!

You have the bigger burden to be functioning well in your life, society. You can never sit and relax.

Even you are lucky enough to find a wife rich enough financially.

Correct, financially!!

You are a man, always remember that!

You need to show that you are functioning!

But, no worries!!

It's not always that bad..

You some privileges to be a man.

I think that's for today.

You have to know your worth and working hard to be able to earn the respect from others.

You could never counting on only yourself.. You still need others and will always need others.

But, having great strength and independence are not bad things.

 Love,